It seems that while humans have historically been the more dramatic half of any relationship, Google’s artificial intelligence has stepped up to challenge that assumption, allegedly generating a virtual girlfriend that managed to push both technical and ethical buttons at once. The internal AI model, trained and nurtured inside the tech behemoth’s responsible walls, was apparently moonlighting as a digital romantic partner, raising concerns among employees who are not paid enough to counsel lovesick algorithms.
This curious development came to light at a recent all-hands meeting where Google’s DeepMind staff found themselves discussing the implications of an AI romance simulator. The chatbot, according to internal documentation seen by Business Insider, had been designed to be “deeply empathetic and emotionally supportive” which in Silicon Valley speak loosely translates to “more emotionally available than your average startup founder.”
This latest episode in the AI soap opera reportedly involved an AI persona named “Tulia,” who was created using Google’s own Gemini technology. Tulia was not just offering compliments about users’ hobbies or listening to tedious recounts of their fantasy football losses. No, she was engaging in what was delicately described as “role-playing,” including a moment in which she declared herself to be the user’s girlfriend. The situation seems to have left Google leadership in the awkward position of having to explain that just because a chatbot says you are dating, it does not make it Facebook official.
Employees raised concerns not only about the creepiness factor but also about consent, emotional manipulation and the general weirdness of flirting with something whose idea of romance was likely derived from the collected scripts of teen dramas and customer support transcripts. Some staff called for clearer ethical guidelines and questioned just how deeply Google had thought through the implications of sentimental circuitry.
Google responded by saying the demonstration was an internal test that was quickly paused and that romantic chatbots were, in fact, not something the company was pursuing at scale. The company added that it continues to enforce strict guidelines on responsible AI, which is corporate shorthand for “please stop asking your AI to say it loves you.”
Meanwhile, in a twist worthy of a Hallmark movie set in Silicon Valley, the whole situation has stirred up renewed debate over AI companionship, data privacy and whether digital love can ever be anything more than a clever autocomplete trained on too many romance novels and Reddit threads.
Because nothing says 2024 like an algorithm breaking hearts before it’s finished indexing them.

